do not force your kid
to apologize, because it leads to resentment. however if you model apology
yourself, your kid can learn to follow your example. once one thing goes wrong,
take as much responsibility as you can to model how to step up and take
responsibility. "I see two upset kids...I'm thus thusrry I wasn't here to
assist you're employed this out before you each got so upset and commenced
hit...and then I got upset somebody was obtaining hurt, so I started yelling,
too...I'm so sorry....Let's all strive a do-over.....I know you do not want to
hit one another, hit hurts...And I hear however mad you square measure....Let's
start over so you'll be able to tell one another what you wish without
attacking one another." Notice
there is no blame or shame here, which makes it easier for everyone involved to
consider how they might have contributed to the problem, and to acknowledge
that.
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